I want to figure out now whatever it is I would have otherwise only realized in the last second of life. Looking back at it all, I'm sure there will be some understanding of life as a total concept; is there way to find that knowledge now?
It is possible for there to be a world of nothing but actors; that is why honesty is so important. And what is the difference between a world full of actors and one where people never speak their honest thoughts? There is none. And yet while people would agree the latter assertion is mostly true of our world, they would not agree that it would be described by the former assertion. This serves to show that people are not only actors to each other, they are actors to themselves as well. Because while growing up people adapt themselves to the rhythm of the world, they learn from observation of society the limits of allowable expression, and assume unconsciously furthermore that one should only think what one can express. All thoughts that exceed the limits of allowable expression must be excluded. In other words, people only talk about what everyone else talks about (which is learned through experience), and then assume the rules of expression apply to thought as well. Thus, when people accept these rules, yet still have thoughts beyond them--which every human does--they become actors to themselves as well, thinking they really are the person they pretend to be; thus, the deception of this world is doublefaced.
And how terrible is a world without honesty! When there is no honesty, there is no way to know what is really going on. Not only do people in a dishonest world not say what they truly think, but they also define themselves as that which they say, thus convincing themselves that they don't even think what they truly think. What a confusing system of interaction this is.
Are there people who would say that people are fundamentally honest? But generally does it not seem that in conversation people are always saying a thought, but that they also have a thought behind their thought? Or specifically, one can ask themself not only whether they are always saying exactly what they think, but are also acting in accordance with the way they conceive the universe to be, at all times. Both of these, that we always have thoughts behind whatever we are saying, and that people do not tend to live out their honest conception of the universe, are predominantly true descriptions of human interaction. Our thoughts are a quiet realm inside us that most people have learned to ignore because of the conversational and social rules learned along the way.
So honesty is a rare thing in the world; yet honesty is what makes the world real. Thus, it is a very hard thing to figure out what is real in the world. It takes a reckless purging of the generic insincerity that has accrued within oneself, and a friend whom one trusts on the deepest level. If this personal honesty is never reached, nor the possibility of its existence recognized, one will never think there is anything deeper in life than what is said in daily conversation. Because of this, the belief that the world is a very real place, and that we ought to live our lives very intentionally, and the search for truth, depend on the ability of people to be deeply honest about themselves and the world in which we live.
Meaning in life, and the feeling that reality is very real place, diminish severely when the level of honesty here discussed is absent. And since the majority of people only live in the world of social conversation, the world to most is a vacant place, one where our lives are not very meaningful entities. Our understanding of the world, and our habits growing up, revolve around what we notice others do. Eventually we end up with a life where we are going through others' actions, thinking others' thoughts, and all life is is assumed habits. It is unavoidable. We do what we see done and think about what we hear said; we judge our lives in relation to those around us, and in response to this tend to blend into our own scenery.
This is what makes me frightened; I notice, with painful lucidity, that my life is one of habits I have acquired. Even the emotions I feel are routine; what if the only reason I am not profoundly agonized, to the point of unbearability, by the suffering of people around the world, is the place I grew up. Westerners tend to throw money at problems out of a sense of obligation but do not feel deeply for those suffering. This is but one example. Suppose I live a life of habit, and that the truth is at the end of the path of a different way of living? We live without meaning; but what if there is one?
There is a dissonance between the assumed amount of meaning in the way people tend to live their lives, which is none, and the idea that there is a very real truth that we are meant to know. On top of this, people tend to imitate the way others live, and so the prevalent assumption is that there is no truth.
That is the conflict of the modern world.
But now let us ask ourselves the question of whether there is a truth or not. If there is, then people's minds in relation to the truth is like the relation of our eyes to the stars when we live in the city; there is so much light pollution that we can barely see them, just like the truth is hazy when we think of it with our lethargic minds. And even if there was no light pollution, our eyes are not very good, and the stars are at a distance. But that would be what it is like.
But in reality, the stars are there, shining gloriously, spread across the entire breadth of the sky. If we looked when we were closer, and with better eyes, and there was no light pollution, we would be utterly overwhelmed with the beauty, glory, and the unending magnificence of their unspeakable greatness. This we cannot forget, for it shows us that if we affirm that there is a truth, how far we yet are from it, and how seriously we must take its reality. To do this, you must continually strip down the world's pretenses to see the truth there at the heart of it, remain vulnerable and honest, and care only for that which in the end would be the only thing of importance.
In the end, people make sense of reality through ways of thinking. And so it is unfair to dismiss an entire way of thinking and living with a single thought. If one wants to be able to hold to what they think is true against opposing ideas, one should be able to carry on in conversation about what other people think. If not, you are unfair to their lives, and are not appreciative of the fact that they are a human that accepted the hypothesis as plausible, to the point that they dedicated their life to it. Also, to hold to your truth, be able to always exceed the other view conversationally; that is, believe that if you honestly spoke with a person of an opposing viewpoint for hours, you would still believe that your position is the one that is true at the bottom of things.
I have always written the word "thoughts" to mean not only the actual ideas in our heads but the concepts as we express them. But there is a distinction needed. The thoughts I have in my head are usually not the same as the conept I derive from them. The thoughts I experience just are my thoughts. The images, the conversations, the instances of reasoning, all continually happening everyday, have exact forms as I know them, and they will never ever be accurately summed in speech or writing.
"If you're not who you are, you'll never know what the world would have been like if you were."
Here are the bottom lines: Honesty is what makes the world real. Most people do not honestly assess things. People's lives blend together. The trend is to be without meaning. If there is a truth, it is as real as it is at its core. The way you would find the truth is through raw and fearless honesty.
(Addendum)
Most people also live lives dictated by assumptions of which they have no conscious awareness. Instead of thinking about the structure of life, and what that structure is, people develop over time, through their experience of society and culture, ways of living life that they then think have no possible defects or flaws. People do not live in a state of worried panic about whether the way they are living is right. Their confidence is a result of the fact that they did not consciously choose their lifestyle based on an overview of its structure, and by comparing it to all the options to see if it is the right one. People experience the content of life; they do not define its structure. Because they do not define its structure, or think about it objectively, they are confident in their unconsciously chosen lifestyle, which they do not realize is in actuality their eternal gamble.
Since ways of living life are really ways of thinking about life given specific circumstances, only people who think about all the possible options for ways of thinking given the circumstances will realize the nature of their subjective choice to live a certain way over another. In order to live deliberately one must transcend their own way of thinking by examining all the possible options of ways to think.
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